Friday, September 7, 2018

Special Someone...

A write-up by Samyak Shah 

So, do we all not have people in our lives? Rather, do we all not have that one special someone in our lives? Most of us do. That is because we're never truly lonely, and if we're believing in that, then what's the harm in having one person specifically dedicated to us, right?

But, I'm not talking the special someone who is your partner, friend, squeeze or anything; because where I'm getting at is that one special someone who is not really a special someone but is a shape shifting entity of our lives.

The entity that everybody has, the entity that most of us know and acknowledge; the entity that comes in the form of your partner, friend, cousin, even helping staff for that matter.
In fact, you'll be surprised when I tell you that it's you who many a times has welcomed this entity with open arms in your life.

The shape shifting entity, who usually takes the form of the special someone (because you can't seem to live without that) is NEGATIVITY 

We all are very welcoming of everything, until we're stabbed right when we thought everything's right, and this is when we begin to close up. It is not bad, it is natural for us to close up, but the question we need to ask is: To which people will we be open to, then?

Negativity can enter your life in any shape and form because we hate to be alone, and most of the times, it will always creep in using the medium which is liked the most by us.

That explains why the people whom we love hurt us, right?

We have always been told to look at all the sides and then make a decision, but neither do we have so much time nor do we have the required patience, and negativity takes advantage of that buffer time to get into our lives.
Unconsciously, sometimes Consciously, we have made negativity a part of lives because we cannot even fathom the things that it can resort to because negativity doesn't have a moral code. We all are weighed down by that special someone because what they manifest is not what they mean to, but it still gets to us.

Nobody is alone, and there is nobody that does not have this special someone in their lives

So what's the harm in having one person dedicated to us?